The trouble is that, for women, being “nice” often translates into putting up with things we should never put up with. How many times has some creep sat uncomfortably close to me on the bus and stared me down, yet I’m too afraid to just get up and move, lest I offend him?
We smile when we’re harassed on the street or hit on by jerks. We laugh at sexist jokes. We learn that when we have strong opinions, we’ll be called bitches and that if we get angry, we’ll be called hysterical. When we say what we want, we’re called pushy or aggressive.
Part of learning “ladylike” behavior is about learning to smile politely when someone is being crude. Femininity has long been attached to passivity and to being docile. Men fight, women giggle and fume silently.
Women And Girls Don’t Need To Be Told To Be Nicer | xoJane
I’m a vicious cunt tbh, I see it as a sort of self-preservation, ja feel?
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With your brow on my brow,
with your mouth on my mouth,
our bodies tied,
to the love that consumes us,
let the wind pass
and not take me away.
Pablo Neruda, Wind on the Island (via larmoyante)
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Maybe innocence is a skin you must shed to build layers more resistant to the caustic truths of the world.
Héctor Tobar, The Barbarian Nurseries (via quotes-shape-us)
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